FAQ

Please RSVP by December 1, 2026. You can update your response any time before then using the same RSVP page and the code on your invitation.

We love your kids, and a few are on the guest list by name. If your invitation includes your children, they’ll appear when you open it with your code. If not, we hope the night off is its own kind of gift.

If your invitation includes a plus-one, you’ll see a spot to add their name when you RSVP. We’re keeping the guest list tight so we can actually talk to everyone - thank you for understanding if we couldn’t extend one.

Once you arrive in Des Moines, the venue is easily accessible by car. See the Travel page for more details on how to get to Des Moines.

No hotel block. Stay downtown near The Loft DSM.

The ceremony is indoors.

Leah and Noah are requesting a phone-free ceremony. We can assure you our photographer will do a beautiful job capturing the event. During cocktail hour and the reception, guests are free to take as many cell phone photos as they would like.

Note it on the RSVP for each guest.

Cold, and snow is possible. The celebration is indoors. Bring a coat. See the Travel page for details.

Please arrive at 3:30 PM for the 4:00 PM ceremony. Dinner begins at 6:00 PM, followed by dancing.

Formal attire. Suits, formal dresses, or other evening formal looks all fit the night. January in Des Moines gets cold, so bring a warm coat and layers for getting to and from the venue; you will stay warm indoors.